These rules of Ukrainian Dating Etiquette are not set in stone but by following then you will avoid embarrassment
1. If invited into a family home, it is traditional and customary bring a gift. a bottle of wine, a cake, chocolates or a bouquet of flowers. If there is a child in the house, it is appropriate to provide him/her with a small gift as well.
2. Do not shake hands across the threshold of a door. It is considered bad luck.
3. When shaking hands, take off your gloves.
4. In Ukraine it is not a custom to shake hands with a woman. Kissing her hand will make you very gallant.
5. Be prepared to remove your shoes upon entering a home. To keep apartments clean, most hosts will provide you with a pair of slippers.
.6. On public transportation, give your seat to mothers with children, the elderly, or the infirm.
7. At the entrance of upmarket restaurants, expect that your coat, briefcase or baggage will be checked.
8. If you are travelling to Western Ukraine have business cards printed in Ukrainian on one side and English on the other. For Eastern and Southern Ukraine it is acceptable to have them printed in Russian and English
9. When eating dinner at someone's home, casual dress is accepted
10. If you bring flowers, make sure it is an uneven number of flowers. (even for funerals) and do not take yellow roses (see Ukrainian Flower Etiquette below)
11. Be ready to give toasts at dinner, for guests are often asked to do so.
12. Offer to share your snacks and cigarettes with those around you.
13. Be prepared to accept all food and drink offered you when visiting friends.
14. Ukrainians are known for their generosity when it comes to feeding others. Turning down food may be considered rude.
15. For business, dress should be conservative. Men should not take off their jackets unless asked to do so.
16. In Orthodox churches women wear scarves or hats, and men take off their hats.
17. Don't put your thumb between your first two fingers - this is a very rude gesture.
Ukraine Dating Etiquette and Flowers
1. At the first meeting with a lady , always, always present her with flowers.
2.If you give or send flowers, make sure it is an uneven number of flowers. Yes in Ukraine culture an even number of flowers will upset and if given to a lady, she will rapidly consider you as not worthy. You should also be careful with yellow flowers as this colour represents falseness and giving or sending only yellow flowers to her will result in her quickly say goodbye.
Old Fashioned Ukraine Dating Etiquette and Dating Customs
One will find that many Ukrainian women, in the larger cities in Ukraine, are modern thinking, though they do follow some dating customs which may be considered old-fashioned by Western standards. These cultural differences add a certain amount of charm to these beautiful ladies. Below are some of the more common dating customs that are considered the norm in Ukraine:
1. Bring flowers - Flowers play a much more important role in Ukraine than they do in the West. A single rose is appropriate for a first date. If you meet your lady's family, be sure to bring flowers to her mother. Always buy an odd number of flowers ( see above Ukrainian Flower Etiquette)
2. Dress your best - Ukrainian woman do not share the altruistic "looks aren't important" mentality that has spread through the West. First impressions are very important to them. You will notice that on the street, people will look first at your clothes, then at your face and you will see many as they walk past a shop window, checking the reflection to make sure their appearance is smart.
3. Don't try to shake hands - Women in Ukraine do not consider it feminine to shake hands when they meet. Also, in the winter, make sure you take off your right glove before you shake hands with a man. To fail to do so is considered rude.
4. Offer your lady your arm - Usually, men and women do not hold hands in Ukraine when they walk together. Instead, the woman takes the man's arm. Be sure you always offer your arm to your lady when you cross the street. Help your lady onto/off of vehicles. Many Westerners are not accustomed to using public transportation systems and forget this courtesy. When the two of you get onto or off of buses, trams, taxis, etc., always extend your hand to help your lady.
5. Always do the pouring - When at dinner or at a bar, always make sure that your lady's glass is full. The man always does the pouring. This is an old custom and deeply ingrained. If you forget to do this, she may think you have no table manners.
6. Don't drink much alcohol - One of the main reasons Ukrainian ladies are interested in Western men is that alcoholism runs as much as 60% among males in this part of the world, which causes them to be less than desirable husbands. Therefore, when it comes to drinking, you should always show moderation and self-control
7. Take off your shoes in her home - To avoid bringing dirt into their homes, Ukrainian citizens almost never wear their shoes inside. Instead, they wear slippers. They usually have an extra pair or two for guests near the front door. If they don't, simply take off your shoes and remain in your stocking feet (Note: because of this custom, you might want to pay careful attention to the socks you choose to wear).
8. Attitudes about sex - You will find that Ukrainian women have the same (i.e., modern) attitudes about sex as Westerners do. Specifically, a few will engage in sex on the first date, a few will not engage in it until they are married, but the vast majority fall somewhere between these two extremes -- they will have sex when they feel that a certain level of mutual caring and trust has developed in the relationship.
9. Asking for her hand - It is still an accepted Ukrainian custom to ask the woman's parents for her hand in marriage. If geographic distance is a problem, consider a phone call. Your fiancé' may not think this is important or even want you to ask her parents, but at least make the offer.
Remember, if the woman still lives with her parents, you do not want to offend them by failing to respect an old Ukrainian custom. Starting off on the wrong foot could land your "big foot in in your mouth".
10. When in Ukraine, do as well-behaved foreign guest would. If you are a Western man who is visiting Ukraine for the first time to meet his Ukrainian woman friend, you may find the entire experience confusing. A little knowledge of Ukrainian customs and etiquette could go a long way towards impressing that special Ukrainian woman.
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